[I] believe the best way to increase
community relations is probably
through common interests, would reckon that students from universities
probably have the best chance for interaction with those from different
communities.
There are some people that won't mix
with Protestants, and many people that wouldn't mind but are afraid
to say [they do] because they are
afraid of what other people will
think and say. Me personally I will mix with anyone. I have a caravan
where we go a lot and socialise most. Most of my mates are Protestants
and we get along fine. They're just the same as me but believe different
things but that should not stop a friendship.
The only way we can understand each other
is to talk about things and spend time with people from different
cultures. It is the only way we will learn to accept each other. We
shouldn't feel we have to live in one certain place simply because
of religion. We should respect each other's beliefs.
[…] I think if everyone could just get
along and respect each other as equals these problems wouldn't be
happening. Personally, I enjoy the company of others and I don't think
of them for a split second as being a part of a religion but simply
as my friends! JUST GROW UP!
Although I would send my children to
a Catholic school, I would always be tolerant of other religious views,
I would discourage bigotry at all times. This is what my parents have
done and I now feel indifferent but tolerant towards Protestants.
I know many Protestants but treat them like my Catholic friends except
for talking about politics or football.
I feel community relations in Northern
Ireland are bridging closer and closer together. In my community I
am becoming more and more aware of the unity between both Catholics
and Protestants, and along with
most people, I am finding it easier not to feel the need to differentiate
or feel differentiated due to religion or nationality. However, I
am constantly aware of little gaps in the community, e.g., young Catholic
and Protestant people socializing in different night clubs, so even
though cinemas, restaurants and workplaces are united this shows that
we often find comfort in our own religious groups. I personally only
came to be friends with people from the opposite religion in recent
years and I have to admit, that
I was quite foreign to people from the other religion at first. I
think it is extremely important to integrate people from different
denominations from a very young age to make it feel normal, so that
there is no effort or unwillingness in being that way.
Everything goes back to the past. To
the troubles and to what happened 100 years ago. I think it's silly
for you parents to stop you having friends from a different religious
background.
Within the countryside there are no barriers
or tensions between Catholics and Protestants, that only exists in
towns and cities.
People who come from a Catholic home
and go to a Catholic school rarely get a chance to mix with other
religions. Sport can be responsible for dividing communities e.g.
Gaelic and Rugby.
I run about with Catholics, but if I
was to meet a real bitter Catholic I could be just as bitter or maybe
even worse.
In my neighbourhood we generally get
along extremely well, it is mainly Catholic but we treat our Protestant
neighbours with the same respect we treat our Catholic neighbours.
I feel that in the area that I live (which
is mixed religion) the neighbours accept the different religions as
if it wasn't there, apart from a few individuals. But religion is
not really a problem in my area.
The Protestants and Catholics of Northern
Ireland really need to sort their attitudes out towards each other.
I hang about with Catholics and find absolutely nothing wrong with
them, so if I can do it, so can others. As for the people
of the UVF, UDA, IRA etc: 'GET A LIFE'.